Why men marry bitches

Is the title of one of the stupidest books I've read.

I was thinking about it as I was cleaning the house today and thought, this really can't be happening. First we had centuries of men telling us what to do and how to behave, and now instead of listening to ourselves finally, we have homosexuals and other women doing it for us.
(and no, don't get me wrong, I have nothing against homosexuals, au contraire, but the way they terrorize us with their fashion concepts, pressuring us to look like young boys is just terrible, but that's another subject).

And now we have HER.. Sherry Argov and her book, telling us what to think, what to say, how to act and how to react.
And yeah, let's not forget our goal: how to get HIM to marry us.

Oh-my-God.
I was really wondering what my purpose on this planet was. Now I know it.
I have to lure a male and make him totally crazy about myself by rejecting him, not answering his calls, punishing him for not calling me, being totally cool, making him believe I have a life and better things to do instead of spending my time with him.

I mean, I just adore books which tell us how NOT to be ourselves.I adore books which tell us that we're not complete without someone.
I adore books which make us feel bad for caring for someone.

Now....I really have to ask myself, how is that kind of thinking supposed to make us happy. How this is supposed to make us feel like true us.
Complete as one person, together with another complete person, while the sum of two people is becoming more than just simple adding two together?

Oh dear.First I put the book away thinking: rubbish. But then I've read it and suddenly I started hearing voices.
LOL, one voice that is. HER VOICE. Sherry (I can exactly imagine how someone named Sherry can look like).
Don't do this. Act like this. No, no you're doing it wrong. You'll chase him away.Don't show you care. Don't answer. Be a bitch. Yesssss....good girl.

But I have to admit. It worked. It totally confused the guy.
And he wasn't the only one. I got confused too.Because I realized I don't enjoy the relationship anymore. From nice, easy and relaxed it had become a game where you have to be on guard. Make your moves before him. Watch each word. Think twice. Don't follow your heart. Follow the instructions from the book!

What an amazing concept.
Act like you have a life.

Amazing concept #2
Act like you don't care so you lure him to marry you
(what a noble and true motiv)

Amazing concept #3
books stops there. Not a single word about AFTER he really does marry you. Do you remove your "fantastic woman" mask and show him the real you? The sometimes sad, sometimes nagging, sometimes needy, sometimes jealous, sometimes weak.....you.
And laugh histerically with the "now you're left with this my dear, till death do us part?"

How about someone writting a book about how to be more YOU.
How to be happy by being YOU.
Accepting YOU and the world.
Accepting the other person and loving her for what she is.
Without wanting to change her. Without changing for her.

I don't need anything, really, but the last thing I need is a victim.
I want to have a life, not pretend to have one.
I want my partner to respect me for what I am, and to accept that person.